Love is the Universal language. Love can be very magical and crystals are the perfect tool to help aid you in bringing more love into your life. Everyone needs love to survive and thrive in this world. There are times though that a person may experience loss of love due to problems within their relationships, whether it be within the family unit or perhaps a romantic relationship that you were in ended.  Situations arise sometimes when we least expect it and life can be turned around very quickly for better or worse. If you or someone you care about wants to manifest more love in their life, crystals are a great tool to aid in attracting the love that you desire. Crystals are powerful tools for manifestation. Having a crystal to support your desire will help you stay aligned to the higher vibration of love that we all need. Everything in the Universe vibrates. Not everyone vibrates at the same energy. People can give off different vibes and their vibration can change from low vibrations to high vibrations depending on how they feel or what they are experiencing. Low vibrations are feelings of loneliness, depression, jealousy, hate, or anger for example. High vibrations are at the other end of the spectrum which include love and compassion for yourself and others.  

Whether you want a new romantic relationship, friendship, family love, or  if you need self love, there are different crystals for each different type of love that you wish to manifest into your life. The crystals that you choose will help raise your vibration and open your heart to align yourself with the vibration of love. In the Bible at 1 John 4:8  it simply states, “God is Love”. Whether you are Christian or not, this may be hard for some people to believe because the World can feel so cold and dark at times that it can make a person wonder, how can God be love? The Law of the Universe, works on the Law of Karma. You reap what you sow. You get back what you put out. Sometimes we have to have patience and trust God and know that the Universe wants you to have love in your life. Having a higher understanding and knowing that the lack of love or the pain that you experience in life will pass, and that love will come back to you in different ways. This is not easy to do though. That is why crystals are a great tool to help people heal and to open the channels within our system so we can invoke more love into our lives.

Mother Earth gives us everything we need to survive and thrive and live happy and healthy. Food, water, oxygen, vitamins, and minerals to help nourish our bodies are all right here on this planet we all share. Just like all medicine comes from the Earth, crystals too can be used as a medicinal aid and not just pieces of jewelry to adorn us with. They emit energy that actually vibrates just as everything that exists vibrates because everything is energy. Crystals are used even in your computer, cell phones and watches. Think about the quartz crystal watches that people wear on their wrist. The quartz crystal emits positive energy. The quartz vibrates very quickly in response to an electric charge. It is these vibrations that enable the watch to keep time. So for all those skeptics that do not believe in the power of crystals, quartz watches are a good example in proving the incredible power and vibrations that crystals emit to be able to make the hands on a watch move. The ancient civilizations knew the powerful healing effects of crystals and science has been catching up with the old ways of healing and integrating it with the new. More people around the globe are waking up and realizing this and using these special magical gems of the Earth to help them manifest and heal themselves.

Listed Below Are 5 Simple Steps To Follow When Using Crystals To Invoke Love

#1  Choose The Crystal That Matches Your Desire                             

     The first step is to choose the crystal that aligns with what you wish to attract into your life. You know what you want and need whether it is for yourself or someone else that you care about and want to help. Whoever it is that you feel needs more love in their life, the type of crystal you choose will be a beneficial aid to help them heal and align them with the vibrations they need. Also, when choosing your crystal, let your intuition be your guide. Sometimes there are so many beautiful ones, it’s hard to decide. Close your eyes and let your intuition be your guide. If you plan to make the crystal into a piece of jewelry, choose the piece that will work best for what you intend to make. Use your senses. What are you drawn to? You will know. To make it easier, listed below are some different types of  love that you may wish to bring into your life and a couple of crystals that align with the vibration that you need for each specific type of love that you want to attract.

Romantic Love – Eros 

   Romantic love is also referred to as Eros which is a word that comes from Ancient Greece. It refers to sensual or passionate love. This kind of love is the kind of love that is shared between people that are attracted to each other. Romantic love is the desire that two people share for each other and is expressed physically. In Greek mythology Eros was the God of love, sexual desire, physical attraction, and physical love. The English word erotic stems from the Greek word eros. If you desire romantic love in your life, there are specific crystals you can use to help you open yourself so you can attract this type of love to you. Listed below are a couple of crystals that work great for invoking romantic love in your life. 

    *Rose Quartz -The Stone of the Heart of Love and Peace

 Since ancient times rose quartz has been associated with love. There are different legends that tell the tale of rose quartz. One legend tells us that Eros, the Greek God of Love and Creation, brought the rose quartz to Earth so that men who possess it would advocate love and not hate. Another tale in Greek mythology says this stone was born from the hands of Aphrodite. After her lover was attacked by a wild boar, the Goddess found her lover dead and from her blood appeared the pink quartz stone. 

   *Emerald – Pure Activator of the Heart Chakra

Emeralds help you to stay centered in your wisdom and make choices from love and compassion. It opens your heart to receive the flow of Universal abundance  and can help heal your heart from past heartbreak which causes emotional blocks within the body. Once the blocks are opened, healing begins to take place which allows for you to become open to love again.

Friendship Love

  We all need good friends in our life. Different situations can arise which can affect our friendships. Whether you want to heal an existing friendship that you have or if you want to make new friends, crystals can help by opening the lines of communication. Not all relationships are healthy for us and sometimes friendships can fall apart. Not everyone is meant to stay in our lives. Good friends that love and support you are sometimes difficult to find. Here are a couple crystals that will help you aid you with friendship love. 

    *Blue Agate – Blue Agate helps activate the Throat Chakra which opens the lines of communication so you can express yourself and communicate better. Blue agate can help you remain calm and think clearly and allows for you to communicate and express yourself in a more relaxed state. This is important in making new friends. It can also help you to calm yourself in situations when you may get upset because people may have misread what you were trying to say. 

   *Lapis Lazuli – Lapis Lazuli is a very good stone to help with friendship love because it encourages compassion and love. Some people have a hard time understanding someone else’s feelings. They may not be able to empathize with what someone else is going through.  If you have a hard time connecting to people on an emotional level and can’t understand another person’s point of view, you may react in a way that may come off as uncaring. This can affect being able to make new friends and can also affect your current friendships.  Lapis lazuli is a good stone to help you cultivate more love and compassion in your friendships. It also encourages loyalty, fun, and devotion with friends.

Family Love

   *Dioptase – Dioptase is a stone of forgiveness and letting go of past wrongs. Dioptase can help you open up the heart chakra and forgive those that caused you pain and to let go of the past and move forward with your life. Whatever anger you carry around with you because  of past wrongs only ends up hurting you rather than the family member that did us wrong. Dioptase can help soothe the anger and resentment created by those within our family. Dioptase  is aligned with the heart chakra and can help you let go of the “chains” or bonds to the past  so you can be attuned with your higher self and have unconditional love and forgiveness.  Dioptase is a fragile stone like our heart can be. When you use this stone, think of it as your fragile heart that needs healing and let go of the anger you hold within you. 

   *Kunzite – Kunzite is a great stone for children and adults alike. It can balance the heart and bring calmness and helps aid in love, compassion, and inner peace. It is a divine stone for comfort. Kunzite is dubbed as the stone of emotion. It will encourage you to heal emotional problems and release any negative emotions. Kunzite is medicine for the heart and soul. It helps heal and open the heart when it comes to family and lineage trauma. It helps you to hear the wisdom and voice of the heart with clarity and understanding.This crystal helps you be capable of giving and receiving unconditional love and helps you to trust again. It has a calming effect and brings peace to the household.

Self Love 

  *Labradorite – Labradorite brings clarity to the inner self and aids in self discovery. This healing stone assists you to shed negative thoughts and to open up the path of transformation within yourself and change your life for the better. It can aid you to have self-confidence and help you to manifest success in your life. It will aid you in banishing thoughts of insecurities, self-doubts, and fearful emotions and help you learn to love yourself. It helps bring out the best in you and tempers the negative side of your personality.

 *Rhodonite – Rhodonite is a stone of love, self-love, and helps aid in balancing both the masculine and feminine energy (yin and yang). It helps you to love yourself and let go of the hurt you may carry subconsciously. It is a crystal filled with love and balance. It will help you to become more centered. It can help you emit healing vibrations and loving energy within your own space which supports emotional healing. It can help reduce codependency and aid you in feeling like you are enough. 

Agape Love – Universal Love

    Agape (from Ancient Greek) or Universal Love is the highest form of love. It is the love that God has for us. This kind of love is self sacrificing, charitable, unchanging, and unconditional love. Agape is divine love. This love is the love that does not judge. Agape love is the love that still loves us even when we make bad mistakes. Agape love is not a love of feeling. It is sacrificial love that voluntarily suffers inconvenience, discomfort, and even death for the benefit of another without expecting anything in return. Agape love is loving the unlovable which is a merciful love. It is the love extended to those that are suffering and need healing and comfort. It is the love we express when we reach out our hand to help a stranger in need. Universal Love or Agape Love is giving of oneself to help others regardless of their race, religion, nationality, age, or gender. Agape crystals vibrate at the highest level and the energy they emit matches to the number 11. The number eleven is the most intuitive of all numbers and represents illumination and deep insight as well as spiritual harmony.

   *Amethyst – Amethyst is a wonderful stone for opening us up to spiritual enlightenment to receive Divine Love and can help you transmute the “negative” energy into “positive” energy. It can also aid and shield you from psychic and negative attack from others which comes from low energies. Amethyst  stimulates the Third Eye and expands the higher mind. It creates a protective shield of light around the body, allowing a person to remain clear and centered while opening to spiritual direction.

  *Clear Quartz Crystal – Clear Quartz is about clarity, light, reflection, and amplification. It is a powerful gemstone which protects and clears negative energy and clears the aura. Clear Quartz is also called the Master Healer. It intensifies positive energy and helps aid in strengthening the natural healing abilities that lie within all of us. It helps purify and cleanse both the physical and energetic body. It amplifies your intentions for manifesting and co-creating with the Universe by assisting you with any kind of spiritual work. Clear Quartz is the perfect stone for developing Agape Love or the Universal Love of Mankind which is the highest form of love.

#2  Cleanse Your Crystals

    After you choose the crystal which aligns with the type of love you want to manifest in your life, you should cleanse your crystal. Crystals pick up energy from the people around them. They will absorb the negative, so it is important to cleanse your crystals before using them to  remove all negative and stagnant energy that they collected along the way before you found them. There are many ways to cleanse your crystals. You can run them under water for a minute or put them in your window so they can be cleansed in the light of the sun or the light of the moon at night. Salt water and salt has also been used to cleanse crystals. Smudging by using smoke from burning sage can also be used to cleanse your crystals.

#3  Charge Your Crystals

Solar energy is a good way to charge crystals. You can charge your crystals with solar energy by placing them where they will receive direct light either from the sun or moon.  Crystals can also be charged from the Earth by putting them in soil with plants. Other crystals can charge your crystals as well. Selenite is a great crystal for cleansing crystals. You can simply place the Selenite onto the crystal or vice versa and leave if for about four to six hours. 

#4  Set An Intention For Your Crystal

   Setting an intention for your crystal means that you want to change yourself and vibrate at a higher level so you can attract that which you desire into your life.  When you set your intention you want to hold your crystal in your hand and say your intentions out loud so the Universe or God can hear you. Setting an intention is identifying with what you want to change in your life and taking the steps towards this change. You can create your own intention for whatever it is you want to attract into your life. For example, you can say “I intend to be more loving and forgive others and myself, so I can attract more love into my life.”  Setting intentions are best done in a state of restful awareness. Our minds are usually caught up in thoughts, emotions, and memories. It is best that we clear our thoughts as best we can before setting our intentions. You can help yourself clear your thoughts and relax through meditation beforehand or simply focusing on the crystal visually and repeating your intention to yourself. Throughout the day you can bring your focus back to the crystal as a reminder of your intention.

#5  Use Your Crystals Often

    Repetition is the key. If you want to achieve anything in life you have to work at it. Changing ourselves and raising our vibrations so we can attract things into our lives that we desire doesn’t happen overnight. You have to keep at it. We can get so caught up in life that we may start off with good intentions, but we slip back into our old habits. Keeping a crystal in your pocket or wearing a crystal bracelet, ring, or necklace on yourself can help to remind yourself of your intentions. Daily practice is a good way to help keep your intention at the forefront of your mind. If you can’t practice daily or fall back into your old ways, don’t give up. It’s okay if that happens. Have patience with yourself and know that everything you need and desire will come to you in time.

In Conclusion

Attracting the love you desire into your life can be achieved. Everyone deserves to be loved and to be happy in life. Know that you are worthy of love.  Use crystals in your daily life to help you heal and as an aid to remind you of your intentions. Open your heart up and let love in. Be the love that you wish to receive. There are many things we can do to help heal ourselves so we can invoke more love into our lives. Crystals are powerful tools which the Earth has given us to use in healing ourselves by raising our vibrations and opening up the channels that are blocked within our system. They are beautiful gems that we can look at and adorn ourselves with as well.  Just gazing at beautiful crystals can make you realize what amazing stones they are. Crystals can help you manifest the love you need and desire. Let the magic of crystals do their work and enjoy the love they can bring into your life because you deserve it! 

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I’m the dreamer who never lived. I’m the dreamer stuck in her head. Still trying to survive. Got caught up in the 9 to 5…so to speak. Still trying to fit in. Trying to be normal so to speak. Whatever that is.

The artist that lives somewhere deep in my heart has been buried so deep and may never be realized in this life.

Why? Money is one reason. I have to survive. Go to work and pay my bills. No time or energy left at the end of the day to pursue what makes me happy. Have to clean, do laundry, take care of my dog and cat. The normal things people do. Something has to give. I’m getting older.

I wonder if others have similar dreams? Music is my first love, then art. I like to write too.

I very much want to say everything. Everything that I’ve been holding inside for years.

I’ve suffered a very long debilitating battle with bi-polar disorder since I was diagnosed at 23 yrs old. I am now 50 yrs old. I’ve had numerous nervous breakdowns over the past 27 yrs. and have been hospitalized many times.

It’s a long story. It all started sortly after I was pushed into a cultlike religion by my mother when I was still a teenager.

Anyway, I never felt free to be me and do what I wanted with my life which caused me to sink into a deep depression.

Now many years later, I still am dreaming the same dreams I had as a child. To be an artist or performer in some way.

It’s a very tiring and naging dream that won’t go away. I thought that I would outgrow it. I thought that it would leave me alone one day. This dream I have in my head.

I thought maybe by writing about it that it would help. It’s so hard to hold a job when you want to stay up late and write and play music.

It’s hard to manage an illness you hide from people at work because you don’t want them to judge you because you have a mental illness. And believe me, people do judge.

I mostly stay home anymore. I don’t go out much. My only daughter moved to Los Angeles last year. I’ve been divorced a long time. I had a couple boyfriend’s over the years since my divorce. I’ve been single for the last 3 yrs. and I don’t want a relationship still. I’m bored with my city I live in.

I want to move to Los Angeles to be near my daughter and try to pursue my dreams before the door will be completely closed for me because I’m too old.

But money is the issue. It’s so hard to let go of my dreams. Why can’t I just grow the fuck up? I struggle with this still since I was a child.

I always would daydream of dancing as a young girl. Dancing made me happy and I enjoyed it so much. It was music that moved me. My true love was always music. But I never pursued it.

I was not encouraged to pursue my dreams or go to college or to even get a job like most people because of the religion that I was pushed into when I was young.

Anyway, here I am sitting here on my sofa tired after work, have to clean the messes my dog and cat left for me and a pile of dishes and laundry waiting to be done. My back and hip hurts after being on my feet all day. But that’s life right? Trying to make a living meanwhile dreams fade and slip away and before you know it, your dead…lol.

Sounds depressing and morbid but I know I’m not the only one who thinks this. And for those that are happy with their normal boring jobs and lives, God bless you and more power to you.

I’m trying still to be like them sadly enough. But after 7 or more nervous breakdowns that I can remember, and “breaking on thru to the other side” so to speak, I will probably never be normal.

And when I come to think of it, why do I want to be? I just wonder sometimes what kind of artist I could have been if the religion and mental illness and trying to survive didn’t get in my way?

From age 23yrs to about 35 I was bed ridden with debilitating depression. So terribly deep I’m lucky I didn’t kill myself.

I thought about it often but never really tried. I truly understand why some people take their own life. I pulled myself up from the depths of Hell and am now much more mentally healthy and strong but I lost my youth.

I call them my beautiful years. I was called beautiful and gorgeous when I was younger and had a killer body to boot. But none of that mattered because I was as good as crippled like someone without legs in a wheelchair. I couldn’t even get up to bathe myself sometimes when the depression was so deep.

As a result I became incredibly spiritual. At a point the medicine only helps so much. I prayed so hard on my hands and knees one night I even saw white light, no joke.

Anyway, I’m lucky to be here and alive and thankful as well. But this nagging dream won’t leave me alone. I know I was born an artist. But I’ve got to realize that life is a continuum and that whatever I don’t accomplish in this life that I can continue on in the next.

That it will all be ok in the end and if it’s not ok, it’s not the end. John Lennon said that not me…lol

So, ok now I feel a little better now. Thanks for tunning in. To be continued I don’t know when. Oh by the way, I turned to positive psychology to help me and it really has been a great help but every now and then I got to be real and speak my truth.

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